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Pro-rape Facebook page not overly surprising

13 Nov, 2009 03:00 AM
The pro-rape anti-choice Facebook page established by a small group of past and present Students from St Paul’s College at Sydney University is alarming, but not overly surprising. People have been warning for years that a sub-culture of binge drinking and lack of respect for women thrives in the colleges. Every now and then the story surfaces, then fades away, but the issues remain.

St Paul’s is the oldest college in Australia, and aims to attract the ‘cream of the crop’ to its corridors. We should all be concerned when men are encouraged to act as if women were lesser beings, with lesser rights. It should be shouted from the rooftops, loud and clear, that such attitudes to women have no place in our society, whether or not you count yourself among the cream of the crop. Rape is rape, whether it is two college students involved or not.

The College environment can be like a subculture, with its own rules and customs.

Student pranks seem common as our brightest brains set their minds to work on dreaming up schemes to make others laugh. The big lesson is being able to laugh at yourself when it happens to you, eg when everything in your room is glued where you left it: your toothbrush, toothpaste, sporting gear, books etc.

Some activities are harmless fun. One College at ANU has a ‘wig-off’ every year, where the male students don a wig and must not be seen outside their room without it. Consequently for weeks there are groups of lairy-haired students wandering around on and off campus; proudly sporting hairdos like green frizzy hair, multi-coloured mohawks or purple pigtails.

Unfortunately, it seems much of college life revolves around alcohol. Binge drinking is common, accepted and encouraged. However harmful to health and safety this may be, we need to remember that colleges would not be the only places in Australia where young people drink too much. A quick walk past any hotel or club at closing time will reveal young people from all walks of life who have had more than one drink too many. (I am not defending the practice, merely noting it is not just a college problem.)

I can certainly attest that binge drinking was widespread at the co-ed college I attended at Sydney Uni in the 1970s. However, few students at the time saw anything wrong with it. A big drinker was more likely to be put on a pedestal than identified as a problem.

It would appear in recent times the focus on binge drinking has become even more intense, and the emphasis on initiation and bonding activities heightened.

There can be a lot of pressure to conform in such a rarefied and intense atmosphere. Some people find the whole experience over-powering.

College life can be a great introduction to university, and the friendships formed can last a lifetime. The social life is fantastic, life is full of activities and there are all sorts of opportunities, including access to tutors for those who remember that a university eduction should include gaining a degree.

Like young people everywhere, college students are learning about life, testing limits, and exploring different ideas. Many overstep the mark, realise their mistake and correct it.

A smaller number get carried away and can’t seem to work out that if what you are doing is wrong in the outside world, it is wrong in college too. Their attitudes are insidious, and can infect others. I suspect St Paul’s will not be the only college with a lot of work to do.

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