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The one travel habit Europeans get right - and Aussies often don't

Italians, Spaniards and Croatians do this, so why don't Aussies?

The Star Flyer.
The Star Flyer.
Louise Goldsbury
Updated June 20, 2025, first published May 18, 2025

At this time of year, Aussies are jetting off to Europe. Whether cruising the Med, the Rhine, the Baltic or the Adriatic, we have much to learn about living la dolce vita.

While cruise lines stack their ships with more and more things to do, Europeans believe happiness is having less to do. Italians have a lovely phrase: Dolce far niente, which means "the sweetness of doing nothing".

Unsurprisingly, in the country of siestas, there's a similar Spanish proverb: "How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then to rest afterward." In Spain, nobody rushes. While everyone else queues to be first off the ship, grumbling about the delay, Spaniards will eventually make their way to a sunny square for a cold beer and tapas.

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Whingeing passengers, please take note of Hurtigruten's campaign using Norwegian sayings to promote expedition cruising. "Ut pa tur, aldri sur" translates as "out on a trip, never grumpy".

Another wise concept is the Croatian fjaka - the art of embracing stillness, slowing down, and enjoying life's simple pleasures.

Oyster tasting on an Unforgettable Croatia cruise.
Oyster tasting on an Unforgettable Croatia cruise.

Marina Rogoznica, cruise director at Unforgettable Croatia, describes her uncle as "the poster child of fjaka, sitting on his porch, staring at the sea, drinking his own wine, and saying there is nothing in the world better than this".

Sounds like a small ship cruise along the Dalmatian coast, where you spend your days swimming, relaxing on quiet decks, and savouring meals with no pressure to hurry.

A Greek person will take you to the oldest cafe in town, teach you three different toasts with ouzo, and casually explain the difference between philosophy and mythology over grilled octopus. Don't be surprised if a full-blown celebration erupts with music, singing, dancing and slabs of baklava.

The French show us how to dress stylishly and remind us how to open wine with a corkscrew. They would definitely skip the buffet (except to inspect the cheese) and instead settle in for a leisurely lunch with a bottle of Bordeaux. A French cruiser wears a light scarf and a linen outfit that says "I might own a vineyard".

Next time you're on a cruise, channel your inner European. Choose quality over quantity, peace over plans, and never underestimate the power of a nap. You'll come back not only tanned but transformed.

Ship of the Week: Star Flyer

How big: 85 cabins, 166 guests

Who would love it: Anyone who loves the traditions and romance of the legendary era of sailing.

Who would not: People who prefer a formal, structured cruise.

Point of difference: A true clipper ship with 16 sails and teak decks, reflecting its nautical heritage.

Don't miss: Learn how to hoist the sails, climb the mast, tie knots or use a sextant.

Price point: Departing from Athens, a seven-night sailing in the Mediterranean in 2026 starts at $3130 per person twin-share including a 20 per cent early booking discount.

Explore more: starclippers.com

Louise Goldsbury
Louise is the Cruise Explorer columnist for ACM. Over the past 20 years, she has sailed on more than 100 ocean, river and expedition cruises in seven continents.

My all-time favourite destination is … Antarctica, but three times is greedy.

Next on my bucket list is … Africa, Maldives, Philippines, Cuba, NZ subantarctic islands, Iceland, Greenland, and three months on a round-the-world cruise.

My top travel tip is … If you're turned off by the stereotype of big ships, start with your dream destination and book the smallest ship you can afford - preferably all-inclusive, so you can fully relax and enjoy.